Fearless Friday: You’re Not Behind, — You’re Right On Time

Hey friend,

Let’s talk about something most of us feel... but hardly ever say out loud.

That quiet voice in your head that whispers:

“You should be further along by now.”

“You should have done more.”

“You’re behind.”

I don’t know where that voice comes from — maybe society, maybe comparison, maybe our own unrealistic expectations — but I do know this:

It’s lying to you.

Life Is Not a Race — It’s a Rhythm

Some of the most beautiful seasons in our lives don’t come according to plan. They come in the in-between moments. The pivots. The pauses. The chapters we didn’t expect — but that shaped us anyway.

And maybe your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would right now. Maybe you’re still figuring it out. Maybe you’ve started over. Maybe you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, after burnout, after a big, beautiful, terrifying shift.

But listen…

You’re not late.

You’re not lost.

You’re not less.

You’re becoming. And that takes time.

A Simple Ritual for Reflection + Re-Centering

This week, instead of pushing or planning, I want to invite you to pause. To reflect. To get quiet with your heart and reconnect with the truth of who you are.

Here’s a gentle ritual to guide you:

Set the scene: Find a quiet space. Light a candle. Play soft music. Put your phone on Do Not Disturb. This is your moment.

Journal Prompt:

Skincare with softness: Cleanse your face slowly. Let it be symbolic — a washing away of old pressure, comparison, and self-doubt. Moisturize with intention. As you touch your skin, speak kindness over it.

Say it with me:

You’re Doing Better Than You Think - You're Not Behind

If no one has told you lately:

You’re allowed to take your time.

You’re allowed to rest.

You’re allowed to start again — as many times as it takes.

And you’re allowed to be proud of the woman you’re becoming.

Keep going, beautiful. You're not behind.

Not because you're in a race — but because you’re worth the journey.

If this touched your heart, share it with someone who needs a reminder that she’s not behind either. Every week we’ll meet here, real talk and soul care included.

With faith + so much love,

Amanda

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